Major struggles of women you need to know as a man

Considering the way women are being treated in the society, this will be a good time to remind ourselves of some of the struggles women go through in life.

Do not hiss; do not debunk this by saying men also go through some struggles in life and are not making any fuss about it. You have to understand that a woman’s anatomy is completely different from that of a man.

No one is going to remind you about the panting and screaming of women who are in labour. We know that story sounds boring to most men until they have the chance to go into the labour rooms with their wives.

Women by default go through a lot even though the society adds to their predicament with the daily bouts of sentiments they throw their way. People are quick to judge them and attribute everything they do to the fact that they are women.

They have a lot going on in their minds and heads and honestly need to be pampered from time to time. Again, do not say men have bigger worries than women since it is their role to provide for the family. This is not a comparison; it is an awareness of the random things women go through daily that men should know in order to appreciate them the more.

Find below some of the basic struggles of women that men find difficult to understand:

1. Menstrual cramps

Many men do not like seeing blood when women are having their periods; some men avoid them like a plague when they know it is that time of the month. You may never be able to understand the agony of these women as they suffer from menstrual cramps.

Some women simply get sick when they have cramps while some have to be admitted. And to think they have to do this once or twice every month is pitiable. The cramp is in addition to the mood swings and pimples they have during that period.

2. Vaginal infection and rashes from pad

You think it is only babies that have nappy rash? You need to check with some women who have rashes after depriving their private parts of air because they have to wear pads and tights to keep smart when they are on their periods.

It is embarrassing for them to itch down there while walking on the road because of some infection they caught. Women have to worry about the toilets they use while men are allowed to stick it anywhere and ease themselves.

3. When they do not reach orgasm in sex

Let us be considerate for once, many women do not ever reach orgasm while they hear the men moan and grunt with satisfaction after a release.

They feel unsatisfied because their bodies had gotten the hitting and pounding while their cores remained sore. But as usual, men simply think they enjoyed the act as much as they did because they did it together.

4. The body change in pregnancy

As much as some women want to remain fabulous and glamorous forever, they simply cannot. All thanks to pregnancy and the change in bodies that result from it.

Men will never be able to understand what these women go through while they are pregnant since some of these women are reserved and would not want to raise alarm when there is no need to.

Some have to be stuck on pills for the fear of not getting pregnant. They worry about missed periods and have to deal with the anxiety that comes with counting days to the next period.

5. The pain it takes to look good

Most men consider women to be dramatic because of the amount of time and energy they invest into facials. They have to worry about making their hair and having their nails polished.

If they do not do these things, they could be seen as unattractive to some men. Some women just want to be themselves without worrying about things like handbags, heels and the cosmetics they carry around.